This is not a religious post, and you're not reading it

The reason you suffer is your lack the understanding of your situation...
Its not really even god fucking with you..
It is your own self drawing to it the experience it needs to evolve...
What you need to do is try to gain understanding into the lesson of your suffrage..
Did Jesus blame god when mankind nailed him to a cross and killed him?
Did he cry pitty poo why me?
Nope..
Why not?
Because he had the vision and understanding that this was a necessary part of his path in life & death...
Had it not happened that way he would not have died a martyr and his words would not have lasted for 2 thousand years uplifting man kind..
The reason you don't understand is you are not able to expand your vision far enough to understand the big picture and your refusal to harmonize or learn the lessons causes them to repeat in your life..
You see misery is really caused by a state of confusion... you suffer because you do not understand... you do not understand because your vision is too narrow.
If you stop being angry and start looking deeper you will understand.
One can be in a pit of fire but if he has greater understanding of WHY he is there (in the big picture) it does not burn him.